Most women tell each other that there shouldn’t be a choice after infidelity. They believe it should be an instantaneous deal breaker, and if it isn’t, there will never be any trust or happiness in the relationship again. That is far from the truth. Plenty of couples have endured cheating and ended up thriving together. There IS a choice here for women, just like there is always a choice in life. You can stay and decide to heal. If this is the man you love, you can stay and let the hurt fade in time, and rebuild trust. You have the right to change your mind about what is actually a dealbreaker for the person you love.
Contributors: NaDasha Elkerson from Love Worth Keeping Relationship Coaching