After an argument, the best thing to ensure that both parties will come out feeling good is to have a do-over. When I was a kid, I would watch all the skateboarders trying these crazy tricks and when they would wipe out or fall they would immediately get up and yell out “Do Over!”. These kids recognized that they needed to practice their skateboarding skills in order to land their epic trick! – Your relationship skills need that level of practice too.
Creating an Aprés Argument Do Over lets the couple fix their mistakes, practice behavior in real time and leaves a connected and positive experience between the couple.
Contributor: Andi Forness, Online Dating Coach